You never know what to expect with parents’ evenings. Some go well. Others you have to steel yourself for, knowing that there will be some tricky customers along the way, some hard facts to face or some issues to address. How well have the students done? What are the expectations of their parents? At the same time how can you convey pithy information about their progress and targets as well as what they have done in RE or can look forward to learning about in the forthcoming year? Statistics, data, results, forecasts, predictions are often the currency of this kind of discussion. But at other times the priority is mainly about boosting confidence, talking about study skills and revision techniques, encouraging dialogue at home about the topics covered, what strengths the student demonstrates. A smile and a handshake end the five minutes you are allocated, which usually go all too quickly.
Yr 9 Options Evening can prove daunting and not for the faint-hearted, especially with all the uncertainty over EBacc and the future of RS at exam level. Turning negative points and attitudes into positive ones is a skill that is demanded when parents comment that their son or daughter really likes the subject and then adds blankly ‘I don’t know where they get it from, because it’s not from me’. Throwing down the gauntlet with this opening gambit is just asking for a reaction, isn’t it? Usually, I discuss the merits and benefits of the subject with parents compared to ‘our day’ when it was so different. Pushing a sample syllabus under their noses and going through one or two examples often has parents commenting that they wished it had been like that when they were at school or shyly admitting a secret interest in the subject. The new specifications concentrating on Philosophy of Religion and Ethics are a definite hit in this respect. The thinking skills aspect of it and emphasis on debate usually wins parents’ approval straight away as they see the useful, transferable skills for the jobs’ market. Others latch on to the philosophy aspect and can see real benefits in stretching and challenging one’s own thought processes.
However, imagine my surprise when the tables were turned recently. Usually it is me who is doing the hard sell at Options Evening, steering parents away from misapprehensions about the subject or talking about the way the subject not only complements Arts subjects but can also be a good foil for those interested in the Sciences. Instead, I was greeted with parents confidently saying that despite issues about EBacc and uncertainty over RE, they still wanted their children to take the subject and that they were going to support them in that choice. I could have hugged the parent who greeted the parents following on by saying ‘Take the subject, it’s great.’ What better PR than parents selling the subject to other parents, their children and the wider community? Now there’s a strategy that would be worth developing further.
Jim Robinson
Autumn 2011